Friendship - gossip & toxic behavior's
In SL I learned its hard to trust people, because as soon you open up about what you
think about a given situation - its okay for some to talk about it on Voice, but if you text
it gets you in problems, because other people like to get you down.
Some people get away with gossip more about things than others.
If you tell them something, its fine if they gossip.
This is why i struggle opening up to people, and its best just do my own things.
I have some few people i can tell anything too both outside wrestling and inside -
but its hard with those you would else consider as friends, but you know you cant trust
them enough to tell them things because they will gossip, and try to make you the bad one.
Ive made some bad mistakes in SL that i am not proud of, at least I'm not afraid
to apologize and admit my faults of a false assumings ank reflex about it afterwards.
Its rarely I hate someone in SL - but what I don't like is toxic behavior.
"Toxic traits refer to habits, behaviors, and ongoing actions that harm others.
Many toxic traits (like self-centeredness) can be subtle, and we want to see the
best in people. Naturally, identifying toxic people in your life can be tricky. " - BetterUp
Let me try and explain fx
- Some can gossip on voice without getting caught.
- A few persons can shut people out from a group of people (circle of friends).
and dont see their behaviour as being arrogance bitches. They done this behavior so many times.
- In SL people like to sneak around and avoid admit they are having a relationship but its okay for them to have it on alts.
- They call you out for snitches get stitches - then they do exactly the same thing.
- I think people in SL lack of self-awareness, thats why they keep on doing it to others.
- They call you out for being jalous- when its them who is.
For my own mental health i am gonna avoid having something to do with these kind of people.
